How to use chopsticks
Using chopsticks properly and competently is important when dining with Asian people you care about. Just ask . If you are not confident enough to use chopsticks, you should ask your server to bring you a fork or other utensils when you order. This is not a big deal; there no need to apologize or explain yourself to the server or your companions if they do not ask. Your server might presume that you need a fork and just give you one; remember to thank them, they are trying to help. It's not a value judgement. If you don't need the fork, just leave it there on the table. Grip . Here is a good video of how to hold and operate chopsticks properly. Here is another . And here is another. Here's another version , an alternate version, of how to hold chopsticks. It's less versatile and less powerful, and in some places it's considered inelegant. However, it is widely used. Etiquette . Here are some important do's and don'...